It is hard, and I am not sure we have it figured out yet.
When it is sunny we make time in the afternoon or early afternoon to sit outside in our backyard and drink some wine and talk. It has helped as our son has gotten older, he is now 1 and we are looking forward to spring and being able to do this while he plays in the yard and eats bugs.
We are trying to do a date night every so often, but it has been a struggle to make that happen while our son is under one-year old. We are trying to make that happen more now that we are past year 1.
We are still figuring the rest out 🙂