How did you find room in your marriage for your interests and passions?
When we first started dating (in high school) we were young and passionate about Art and Skateboarding. My wife was in the state’s best schools for art, I was a sponsored skateboarder touring the county. It was easy getting behind what the other was passionate about. Early in our marriage, we somewhat shelved those passions to be “really good at being married” – whatever that means. I stopped skating, she didn’t do much in the way of art projects. It only took a few years before we were miserable from not doing what we loved, though it was totally by accident. My wife started working with another artist, got inspired and then started taking welding classes. I was bumped because I was “losing” my time with her. After sulking a bit, she sweetly encouraged me to take a photography class. I had done darkroom photography back in school, but not... Read the rest of the answer here.
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